Purge out these insecurities right out of your head so you can have a fun time sex dating.
Your Breast Size
Do you really think guys care if your boobs arent big enough when out sex dating? There really is no need to add ridiculous layers of padding or buy that new wonder bra you saw at Fredericks of Hollywood. And who knows? It might turn out to be a complete turn-on for him.
Your I Dont Shave/Wax In the Winter Idea
Women are pretty good in maintaining their manicures during the winter months, but leg shaving and bikini waxing are both usually forgotten. Getting a bikini wax isnt exactly an enjoyable procedure, so if women decide to do it, there has to be a beach somewhere nearby, or maybe Hawaii. But do you know whats a whole lot better than Hawaii? Mind-blowing oral sex. âNuff said.
Your Stretch Marks
These are something that will stay, and probably not be going anywhere anytime soon. Deal with it. This especially goes to all the single moms who used to have abs like Gwen Stefani, and now meh. I feel your pain, girls. But you dont have to worry, its all good. He still thinks youre sexy, and you have to trust me on this. Never have I heard of foreplay coming to an abrupt stop just because a guy discovered a patch of stretch marks on a womans body.
The Fact That He Never Spends a Night At Your Place
This is particularly directed to the single moms out there. Yes, we all know being in a relationship is all about compromise, and yadda, yadda, yadda. But seriously, perhaps its a good idea to take things at his place. My kid still wakes up in the middle of the night, so imagine him waking up and seeing mommy getting it on with a stranger. Keep your sex dating life simple and save your I fucked up my kid therapy money for something else more important. So unless your man has spent considerable time with your kid, hook up at his place. Or maybe at your place if your kid is with the other parent.
Doubts About Your Oral Sex Performance
I know this is far from easy to do. Literally. And Samantha from Sex and the City said it best: Theres teeth replacement, jaw suction, gag reflex all while bobbing up and down, moaning, and trying to breathe through your nose. They dont call it a job for nothing. But guys like it. And regardless of how bad you think you might be at giving blow jobs, as long as youre not hurting his little friend, hes going to enjoy it. For guys, a bad blow job is probably like bad pizza; even if its not perfect, its probably still pretty good.